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Ok Snow, I will jump in to get the ball rolling, by biting off just a little bit.
I get that for self described "size queens", who like black men, Mandingo is highly desirable. But somehow the desire for Mandingo, as you have defined it, 10+, seem counterintuitive, as if it is driven by the obsession of men. Every study I have every read, women's preference is girth (with in reason) over length. So if Mandingo is at the top of the BBC food chain, why is length the only stipulation to be in that grouping? 
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In the spirit of Black history month I must wonder how many Black men in the USA paid the price (beatings, lynchings, murder, incarcerations) To be called "men" or a man.. Yet so many times on this site Black men are being refereed to (and refer to themselves) as an acronym-- BBC, BBD or animals, Bulls, Stallions, Snakes (Anacondas,Pythons) Donkeys..SMH, I get that it's a sex site and BBC, BBD are the "it" word.. But is there a reason that folks don't want refer to us as Black men? If I were a believer in the conspiracy theory maybe the powers that be don't want us to be called a man..Maybe then it's easier to validate their positions in this quote on quote "Lifestyle" Like the popular post line "looking for some BBC for the wife"
There are a lot of interracial groups on this site, This group is rare that it Named White Women who Crave Black Men.. Many other groups are just called White Women for BBC, Real women for BBC, Juicy white pussy for BBC... So on some level I'm wondering are Black men just mindless dicks to you ladies? If so, wouldn't a life like 10, 12, 14 inch dong do? My bad, didn't mean to rant but I must admit I feel some type of way about not being called a "Man' first and foremost.
bandit5_0 replies on 2/7/2014 8:15 pm:
You killed it Oz!  |
rm_RiJusthvnfun replies on 2/8/2014 4:57 am:
I think people use words sometimes without even thinking about what they are saying. They hear a word used in a certain context and they just repeat it. I don't think there is any bad intentions for most people, just ignorance. |
bandit5_0 replies on 2/8/2014 5:28 am:
Ignorance isn't an excuse - and I'd bet good money that some white people on here would substitute "N" for "BBC" if they knew they could get away with it. |
rm_RiJusthvnfun replies on 2/8/2014 5:41 am:
Ignorance is not an excuse but sometimes it's a reason. All people grow up with different experiences and if you can't see past a word or phrase to understand intentions, you can't educate the ignorance away. Of course some people are just as assholes and even though ignorance and asshole are frequently used to mean the same thing they are not. You can't educate the asshole out of someone... |
bandit5_0 replies on 2/8/2014 8:17 am:
@ bcl - ignorance can be a reason in the real world when you can look them in the eye when they say what they say. In all my years I've NEVER had a white woman say any of those terms to my face and yes, I've had plenty of conversations with white women where questions were asked about my race and I gave an understandable explanation. But on HERE it's a different story. It's very hard to gauge where a person is coming from...so hard I pretty much don't even bother with profiles that use those terms. |
rm_RiJusthvnfun replies on 2/8/2014 9:38 am:
Bandit I can totally see your point. I guess in the back of my mind I am always very aware of my lack of knowledge and experience in some areas. I hope when I stumble others look at my intentions and not always my words. |
funnwi replies on 2/11/2014 7:10 am:
I am not comfortable and will not use any of those terms you mention oz. To me, the sex is so much more than the dick involved or the skin color of the man involved. I don't want to have sex with someone specifically because of a single thing such as a certain size dick, or the color of your skin. Having said that, I do find the contrast of our skin color very sexy, and I do find myself very attracted to a black man with a nice fit body, and a nice face. But as you can see, I'm already saying this and that, or that and this. So to sum it up, it is the complete package of the man that I'm attracted to and makes me want to have sex with him, be it a white man, or a black man. |
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Glad to see you back Sno!
There was a post some time ago that had something to do with every woman should get a queen of spades tattoo. I researched it online and found that queen of spades can mean very different things in different circles. It could mean:
Interested in black men
Property of a black man
Exclusive to black men
Will have sex with any black man that wants it
The word spade I have seen used as referring to black but rarely in conversation. Ted Joans wrote a poem about Malcolm X after he died titled My Ace of Spades. I know some who look at it as just slang with no negative context and others that find it derogatory.
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