I've been on Adult Friend Finder for a few years now, and what I am looking for has changed. Like most guys I came on here looking for sex. What I've found are a lot of good friends. I frequent the Chicagoland Chat Room, chat a lot and go to some Meet & Greets. One thing that I want to clarify is that like most people in the chat room, I have a “chat pera” that is very different from who I really am. I am more quiet and somewhat of an introvert until I get to know people. Since i know most of the Ladies in the room either perally or from chatting over a period of time I get flirtatious. A number of women, particularly the newer ones mistake this as my being a player or a "wanna be player". This is soooo not true. I am not trying to get with every or any women in there and have not been with that many from there. Since I have been out of my marriage, I am looking for a relationship. I am open to a "Friends with benefits" situation but a more committed relationship would be preferred, possibly even leading to marriage. Marital status and age are not a big issue, and neither is body type to a great extent. I am not now and never have been skinny. I prefer a woman who is honest, straightforward, affectionate, and fun to be around. One who enjoys staying in and cuddling in front of a fire, and who is open and adventurous sexually.I have always thought having a g/f that is bi would be interesting, although it’s not a requirement. If you are interested, please hit me up here or look for me in the Chicagoland Chat Room and let’s see how we like one another! I look forward to hearing from you.

My Ideal Person I am looking for a woman with similar interests and sexual preferences, who is open to developing a relationship. While a Friends with Benefits is an option, i am seriously looking for more. Some fun at a M & G is not out of the question. A good personality, honesty, and being open to trying new things are qualities I look for in a partner. Age, race, body type and marital status are not as important as being a good person--honest and passionate. It would help if she enjoys oral--giving and receiving, is open to anal, and is open to trying new positions and locations. I would love to hear from you and see if we can't rock each other's worlds!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Bad Company, Kansas, Blue Oyster Cult

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I fantasize about making love to a sexy woman on a white sandy
beach at sunset. We become so enthralled in the passion of the moment, we
don't even care if someone walks by. In fact, I wouldn’t
even notice—would you?

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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