Requires an uncomplicated, easy going warm heart, laughter and a confident and patient friend & lover to enjoy some private, discreet adult fun with. I have NOT had that in YEARS! I am very much attached, that will not change, not by me, willingly anyway. What I would like to change is the extreme lack of sexual activity and heat in my bedroom...living room, kitchen...you get my drift! I am NOT a dirty little housewife (anymore, but could play one if that works for you) . I do not and (as yet) have not had affairs but here I am well into my 2nd decade of life with my partner and although I am considered attractive, reaably appealing 'STILL' I have a very inactive, stagnant sexlife. I am left wanting and aching for sexual satisfaction or at least just relaxed mutually gratifying adult fun! ....I think this sounds like most married/partnered men really! Many men ( almost all of you here, I'm sure!) say their wives/girlfriends are not bothered about sex,or are not enthusiastic enough. Trust me, these sites exist and work because there are loads of us, women are no different! I used to REALLY enjoy all familiar aspects of sex,playing and the workout. :-) It has been so long, I've just turned 40 I'm very committed to my marriage and although very unfit, am looking for someone respectful, discreet and fun loving . I guess I need a different kind of peral trainer!!! Patience required though. x

My Ideal Person Sense of humour, completely blissfully happy with their life, fit ( trust me, I look good but am so unfit and not in a position to judge too harshly), a roid head gym nut is not what I mean by fit, I just cannot bear fatties, belly of any kind, ugh, NO!! . Not nice but hey it's my profile!! Confident, kind, gentle but not...along with a desire to lick, kiss, suck and tease.

I also love a man to look like a man and be tidy,smelling great & trim, .Shaved balls, please, you will appreciate the resulting rewards. I am very much out of practise in the bedroom but have faith that with a patient, decent person who has a sense of humour and would like to suggest, direct, guide and eventually push and pull me into some really hot steamy fun I will be fine, particularly as from what I recall, morning noon and night is how I used to enjoy it!!!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
U2

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place, The middle of a park, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A store dressing room, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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