Separated 10 years ago and finalizing my divorce presently. My first commitment is to my and then my job (though it often works out differently). I work on the far east side often for 15 hours or more a day and don't have a lot of free time. My job is extremely stressful and demanding and doesn't leave alot of time for the random silly that goes with the dating scene. I am looking for physical & emotional intimacy with out the games and drama. I am 39 years old and I know what I want/need. I am old school in many ways. I will open doors, I will bring flowers randomly because you're on my mind, I will order dinner for both of us...but I wont live your life for you and I wont be responsible for your life choices. I'll work beside you to make the best of everyday/situation, regardless of how unpleasant but I wont be your excuse. If you're a strong partner, willing to tell me what you want and even take it from time to time, than you have my attention. I don't have a "type" and try very hard to not limit my life in that way. I don't care if you don't live up to your own standards of perfection...I care that you are real and honest and interested in LIVING in this life. I've met people in my life that I don't stay in touch with but rarely have I met someone I regretted knowing. I am 100% D/D free and I perally don't like to play with multiple partners. If you want to know more or want to get together some time, don't hesitate to contact me. I have nothing to hide so I will gladly give you means of contacting me outside of this site.