SWF, 36, looking for fun with new friends. What I am looking for...Friends, chat buddies, whatever..just people to hang out with and have a little fun when I'm not working. If you can read my profile and are interested, don't just send a wink send me a message. I mean really...what's the wink gonna do for us? LOL Just delays the inevitable...

My Ideal Person UPDATE 6/30/05:

OK look, a lot of you people still can't seem to figure out that just because a woman is on this site she's some kind of total slut that will fuck anyone anywhere anytime. This is NOT the case, as you will soon learn if you spend any reasonable amount of time around here. I have been on Swinger World a long time and have met tons of good people and more than my fair share of assholes too. But I think I need to set some more specific guidelines so I can quit wasting my time reading emails that are not even in the same realm as close to being what interests me. So here goes..and if you get easily offended or pissy about what I have to say that's your problem, not mine.

MY AGE GUIDELINES FOR DATING ARE 30 - 40. THERE IS VERY LITTLE ROOM FOR NEGOTIATION HERE. VERY LITTLE BY DEFINITION MAY BE A YEAR OR TWO, BUT DOES NOT MEAN 5 OR 6. COMPRENDE?

IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A FACE PIC ON YOUR PROFILE, SEND ONE WHEN YOU CONTACT ME. DO NOT TRY TO COAX ME ONTO MESSENGER FOR THIS. MY PICS ARE READILY AVAILABLE AND YOURS SHOULD BE TOO.

1. I am NOT getting involved with a married man, unless this is also involving the wife or I have proof of her knowledge/consent.
2. I do not see much purpose in meeting with someone who is just in town temporarily from out of state. These meetings usually only serve one purpose for the man and that is not what I am about. Dinner/drinks or something of that nature is one thing, but do not expect more than that. I'm not saying relationships can't develop at a distance, I'm just trying to be realistic.
3. I do not accept network invites from people I haven't spoken to. This is usually from single males who can't even bother to post a pic of their own. Sorry. Tit for Tat, guys. Send me one when you contact me, or I probably won't reply right away. This includes couples/females as well. Friends are great and if that's all you seek then it's not a requirement. I will be posting a new photo hopefully sometime in the very near future, as the previous one is getting outdated. It's still in my network and I will send it or invite you after we talk a little.
4. I am not into interracial relations on a physical level. Sorry, this is my preference and is not meant to be offensive in any way. Friends are fine though.
5. Shaved heads are a turn off for me.
and last but CERTAINLY not least...
6. I do NOT want to see a picture of your dick. If you can't show me what your face looks like, I certainly won't be seeing anything else you have. I know you have one, but I really don't care how big it is or to see you photograph yourself playing with it. If I want to see your crotch, I'll remove your clothes myself if we get to that point.

Yes, I am a difficult and challenging person to get through to. But if you can handle it, feel free to give it a try. I welcome the opportunity to meet you. Most days I can be found in the Southern chat room, but don't get offended if you see my name and I don't speak. Comp stays on even if I'm not there.

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